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Account & Profile Setup

Getting to know your profile

  • Manage Notifications

    You'll receive an email or push notification for various activity, such as forum responses, news about events and places, new comments and so on.  All of this is easy to manage if you wish to receive ...

  • Change Your Profile Information

    To change the information on your profile, all you need to do is hover your mouse over your profile photo (top right-hand corner) - a drop-down box will appear, then just select 'Edit my profile.'...

  • Change Your Username

    Yes, it's possible and you can change it here.  But first, see below for important details you should know before requesting a username change. Your username can only be changed once per year. In urge...

  • Deleting Your Profile

    We'd love you to stay with us, but you're free to delete your profile at any time, there's no notice period or any other requirement. All you need to do is:  Hover over your profile photo in the top r...

  • Where can I find my last profile visitors?

    To view who has visited your profile, go to 'Who checked me out'.   Note: only Premium and VIP members get to see the full list of people who have checked you out....

  • Multiple Profiles

    Sorry, no. In fact, it’s against our Terms and Conditions to create more than one profile.  You’re only allowed to register with one profile.   Why? Because having one profile helps to ensure a qualit...

  • Change My Date Of Birth

    You can change your date of birth, but only once.  Any further changes won't be possible.  Why can I only change my birth date once? Mistakes happen! In case you enter the incorrect date of birth when...

  • Profile Verification

    All Fetish.com members can verify their profile for free via the profile verification check. With this authentication, you'll show other members that you are who you claim to be. There are two methods...

  • Change Gender

    You can change your gender if, for example, you're transitioning, or you chose the wrong one in the sign-up process. Click here to send a request to change your gender. Note: You can only change gende...

  • Activation Link

    The activation link is for one-time use only to activate your account. You can then log in with your (chosen) nickname (user name) and password....