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Privacy & Safety

Ensuring your privacy and security

  • Managing Your Privacy Settings

    We take your privacy seriously and give you plenty of options for setting your privacy levels. Your privacy settings let you manage which areas of the site you want to reserve for trusted people - or ...

  • Fake Profile Suspicion

    If you have reasons to doubt about a member's authenticity, regardless if you have any concrete proof, please report it to us.   Open the profile in question, and click on 'Report Profile'.  When you ...

  • Using Your Message Filter

    We make it easy for kinksters to control who can contact them.  For example, you might want to only receive messages from certain genders or a particular age range.  You can set your message filter to...

  • Sending Pictures From Private Gallery

    You can only send pictures that are on your computer.  It is not possible to send pictures from the secret gallery or from your Fetish.com profile in general....

  • Offended By Member

    We don't entertain offensive members in our Fetish.com family, so here are a couple of actions you can take. First, we recommend that you ignore the offending person and put them on your ignore list, ...

  • Private Gallery

    You can upload images that should not be accessible to all members to the private image gallery. Select the option to the private gallery when uploading the images. This means that these images are on...

  • Measures To Combat Fakes

    We check and look into all reports made to us by the community about fake profiles. What's more, our Support Team is always looking for fakes and misleading profile information. Weeding out the fakes ...

  • Using The Blocked List

    You can find the members you have 'ignored' in your 'Block list'.  To see the block list, follow these steps: Hover over your profile photo in the top right-hand corner.   From the drop-down list sele...

  • Why Is My Profile Blocked

    The Terms and Conditions of Use and Community Guidelines state what can and can't be done on the site and how to conduct yourself.  If there's any breach of these rules, profiles can end up being bloc...

  • Invisible Mode

    The invisible mode gives you the opportunity to stay online without being detected. You have two options to turn it on: During login Click on Invisible After loggin in Hover over your profile picture ...