We make it easy for kinksters to control who can contact them. For example, you might want to only receive messages from certain genders or a particular age range. You can set your message filter to only receive messages from members with a profile picture, a certain character length or from verified profiles only.
To access your message filter, hover your mouse over your profile picture and select 'edit my profile'. From the left-hand menu, select 'Message Filter'. Or visit this link to access your message filter.