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FAQs about general fetish use

everything about the general use of Fetish.com

  • What is a first contact/the first contact limit?

    A first contact is a message to a member who has never sent you a message before.  Once a member has replied to you or written to you directly, it is no longer a first contact. You can write to this m...

  • Why can't I open messages in my inbox?

    If you discover a crossed-out message in your inbox that you cannot open, the sender of the message has either been blocked or has deleted themselves from the site in the meantime. The message can be ...

  • Why can't I find myself in the search?

    To keep the profile search simple, the system is designed so that your profile is not listed again. Furthermore, the search is organised in such a way that you only see members who are also searching ...

  • Why do some preferences appear in purple?

    Shared preferences are marked with a dark purple font colour at Fetish.com. This allows you to recognise directly whether the person whose profile you are visiting has the same inclinations and desire...

  • Why are only active members displayed in the search results?

    We believe that members who have not been online for more than 30 days are less interesting for other members. For this reason, members who have not logged in for more than 30 days are not listed in t...

  • Why am I not receiving a response to my support enquiry?

    Once you have sent a request to the support centre, you should receive an automatic confirmation of receipt within a few minutes. Have you looked in your spam folder? The e-mail may have been moved th...

  • How do I report an error?

    If you would like to report an error, please write a request to support and include a precise as possible description so that we can understand and resolve the problem. The following information is al...